Good read Kim , lots to think about. I lost my daughter at six months along. I’ve felt it was my fault that I had done something wrong and my body failed her. It took years to “get over it” as they say…. But do you ever get over it … I don’t think so. Pretty little black hair blue eyed baby girl. I still dream about her.❤️Kelsey
Thank you so much, my dear friend. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your ex. No matter the status of our relationship when someone we have cared for passes, there is a grief. We can choose how to engage it. Sending healing and love your way 💜
Thank you. Thank you. This is an act of service. Two days ago an ex of mine passed away. I had already grieved the loss of the relationship when we broke up over the summer. He had been very sick and I had helped to care for him but other circumstances caused us to go our separate ways. When I heard of his death, my question was, "How do I grieve the loss of someone that I did not plan on a future relationship with?" I don't feel sad. I feel nostalgic for what I hoped for which is still alive and well within me for my next partner. Your piece invites me, maybe, to honor things that I may not want to feel. I will go in search of what may be my own blue heron as your article has encouraged me to find a different layer of grief. Or is it forgiveness? Thank you. You unravel me.
Good read Kim , lots to think about. I lost my daughter at six months along. I’ve felt it was my fault that I had done something wrong and my body failed her. It took years to “get over it” as they say…. But do you ever get over it … I don’t think so. Pretty little black hair blue eyed baby girl. I still dream about her.❤️Kelsey
Thank you so much, my dear friend. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your ex. No matter the status of our relationship when someone we have cared for passes, there is a grief. We can choose how to engage it. Sending healing and love your way 💜
Thank you. Thank you. This is an act of service. Two days ago an ex of mine passed away. I had already grieved the loss of the relationship when we broke up over the summer. He had been very sick and I had helped to care for him but other circumstances caused us to go our separate ways. When I heard of his death, my question was, "How do I grieve the loss of someone that I did not plan on a future relationship with?" I don't feel sad. I feel nostalgic for what I hoped for which is still alive and well within me for my next partner. Your piece invites me, maybe, to honor things that I may not want to feel. I will go in search of what may be my own blue heron as your article has encouraged me to find a different layer of grief. Or is it forgiveness? Thank you. You unravel me.